So ever since break, my friend has seemed distant lately. I don’t know what to do or what I have done. And with how busy we are, sometimes I don’t see her for a while. So I end up spending more time with my boyfriend than trying to equally give both my time. -Confused Cassandra
Dear Confused Cassandra,
Sometimes life just happens and we don’t see our friends as much as we’d like to. It doesn’t mean we care about them any less or care about people we do see more often any more. I’d try to schedule a time with you and your friend that you both do your best to make it to.
I have a friend who is very unlucky in love. Any suggestions on finding romance in the castle – Asking for a friend
Dear Asking for a friend,
My official suggestion is don’t, don’t go looking for love let it find you. We are here to make friends and learn new things if you’re just interested in finding someone to snog you’re missing out on extraordinary friendships. Love will always find you in the most unlikely places, so tell your friend to wait and someone will come their way.
So me and my best friend made a promise. Actually a couple. But he broke both of them! He said he was sorry but he also said he only made the promise to make me happy. I’ve already thrown things at him for lying. And really I just want to spell him and leave others to find him. But he did apologize. What do I do? -Angry and Confused
Dear Angry and Confused,
You really only have one of two options you can forgive them for breaking those promises and try to mend what friendship you have left, Or you can not forgive him and end the friendship there. I’d have a discussion with him as to why he felt the need to break those promises and see if you can find some middle ground. Majority of people I know don’t tend to break promises without a fairly good reason in doing so. And I would totally not spell him and leave him for others, that’s just bad form.