Another year, another issue of Ruffled Feather. For those of you who don’t know me, let me introduce myself. My name is The Raven Quill, your goto for all good, bad and the darn right ugly. If you are having issues and have nowhere to go, I am here to give you the best advice I can personally give! So submit that each week and you will find your questions answered!
” I have a few best friends but lately I act out of sorts around the one. I try to do silly antics and other things to make him smile. It’s like I got hit with a case of veela. But he likes someone else and doesn’t seem to notice and we keep going just as friends. What do I do?”
The best thing you can do is be patient. It’s a hard thing to watch another you like, like someone else. You will always try and compare yourself to them and what is wrong with you. In the end, you will realize you would end up unhappy if you tried to make something work now before he realizes you would be everything he wanted to begin with. You are your own person, and he and her their own. Don’t change for anyone and the right person and moment will come along for you.
“So, I’m dating this girl. But the problem is, I’m in love with this other girl. I don’t want to hurt the girl I’m with now but I know it’s no good to stay with her. Should I man up and tell her the truth?”
Dear In Denial,
Finding yourself in love with another before you even ended things with her is downright rotten to your current boa. It’s not fair to either of them considering if the second girl found out, that will leave a bad taste in her mouth thinking you would do just the same to her as you easily did to her. You should have admitted the truth to yourself a long time ago and you are only making it worse dragging it out.