Written By: The Black Owl
Here’s the problem. I like a girl. The problem isn’t that I like her or that she’s veela or anything like that. It’s just… I feel guilty? Sometimes she reminds me of my ex, my ex who I still feel a strong bond with. I’m not sure if I’m still in love with my ex, but I do like this new girl. How do I stop feeling so guilty?
Sometimes, we seek out a familiar face, personality, or voice to make us feel comfortable. There were obviously characteristics that you liked about your ex and now you probably seek that out in future mates without knowing it and that’s okay. I think the only way you’re going to be able to stop feeling so guilty is by realising these things and confronting them.
If you feel like there is an inkling of a chance that you’re still in love with your ex, don’t lead this other girl on. That’ll be bad news for you entirely. Give yourself some time and take it slow.